作為家長要明白:德不配位,必有災殃!

無論家長、教師,是其他權威,一旦擁有不受孩子平等約束的權力,就會使個人私慾放大,任性加劇,蔑視理性、邏輯和正義。

而正義無時無處不在,違反平等、自主、互相監督的教育正義,任性加劇,錯誤也會不斷加劇。

此外,孩子們受到無形的權威誘導,其任性也會不斷加劇。這樣,錯誤的信仰、價值觀、思維習慣和行為習慣悄無聲息地又傳染給了下一代。任性的父母加任性的孩子,這個家庭的前景不會好。而任性的教師加任性的學生們未來更加可怕。

所以,作為權威,德不配位,必有災殃。

正義無時無處不在,我們一定要小心敬畏正義。自覺給孩子自主權,自覺地鼓勵學生們平等地檢查、鑑督、批評、糾正自己。

當父母具備了正義的道德,才能和孩子平等互愛,互相糾正,這個家庭才會前景美好,和諧幸福。

當老師具備了正義的道德,才能和學生們平等互愛,互相糾正,才能造福社會。

——陽光正義書院徐文欽

As parents to understand: virtue does not match, there will be disaster!

No matter parents, teachers or other authorities, once they have the power not to be bound by children‘s equality, they will magnify their personal desires, aggravate their willfulness and despise rationality, logic and justice。

And justice is everywhere all the time。 Violation of equality, autonomy and mutual supervision of educational justice will aggravate willfulness and errors。

In addition, children are induced by invisible authority, and their willfulness will continue to intensify。 In this way, the wrong beliefs, values, thinking habits and behavior habits are quietly transmitted to the next generation。 With willful parents and willful children, the future of this family will not be good。 The future of willful teachers and willful students is even more terrible。

Therefore, as an authority, if virtue does not coordinate, there will be disaster。

Justice is everywhere all the time。 We must be careful to revere justice。 Consciously give children autonomy, consciously encourage students to check, supervise, criticize and correct themselves equally。

When parents have just morality, they can love and correct each other equally with their children, and the family will have a bright future, harmony and happiness。

When teachers have just morality, they can love and correct each other equally and benefit the society。

——Sunshine justice academy Xu Wenqin

作為家長要明白:德不配位,必有災殃!