年齡大的人，不要想太多，簡單，自在，總比什麼都好。

Older people， do not think too much， simple， comfortable， is always better than anything。

無論什麼原因，能夠主動低頭的人，必然會珍惜這段感情。

No matter what reason， people who can bow their heads actively will be recognized and cherish this relationship。

以前在網路上看到過這個問題：從來沒有主動聯絡你的人，應該堅持還是放棄？

I‘ve seen this problem on the Internet before： should anyone who has never taken the initiative to contact you insist or give up？

起初，鄰居還是很羨慕她，遇到她時，一定要說幾句“你真有福”之類的話。

At first， the neighbors still envy her。 When they meet her， they must say something like “you are so blessed”。

積極地聯絡，證明想念

Positive contact proves missing

當她出嫁時，我是個隨禮，可輪到我結婚了，而她卻不說話。月酒會讓她的孩子們喝完，我帶著禮物去看，後來我生了孩子，她只是發了個微信。

When she got married， I was a casual gift， but it was my turn to get married， but she didn’t speak。 The monthly reception let her children drink up。 I went to see it with gifts。 Later， I had a baby。 She just sent a wechat。

這樣，才能在風雲變幻的生活中，順其自然地活著。

In this way， we can live naturally in the changeable life。

喜歡你，他不是在說什麼，而是要讓時間來證明他的真心實意，讓你明白自己的選擇是正確的。

Like you， he is not saying anything， but to let time prove his sincerity and let you know that your choice is correct。

那時，做了很多委曲工作。總是認為只要自己懂得點，努力一點，就會被枕邊人善待，得到親人和朋友的重視。

At that time， I did a lot of wronged work。 I always think that as long as I know better and work harder， I will be treated well by the people next to me and valued by my relatives and friends。